eulogy

 

 

i remember you

 

you once wore cut-offs and ate plums

on Jones beach mid-august

with the sun at your back

and in mid-winter with those

blue boots and green gloves

you shoveled piles of snow

sporting a seasoned beard

 

but after the thaw

you’d show me how to’s

with my plastic shovel and bucket

and your tools

in the cool wood and cement smell

of the shed

with it’s cobwebs and sawdust.

 

yes, i  think i  remember you now

 

with your cowboy boots and silver watch

that would flip back and forth

between my child fingers

which also, on occasion,

would stretch out the holes in your

worked hard, worn out tee-shirts

[ stopped only of course

by a strong ‘quit!’

and a smile

and the knowledge that you loved me.]

 

short and to the point

your feelings were clear

you never made a fuss of things

even up to the end

as i prayed over your shallow body

searching for a renewed faith

“I‘m dying”  you told me

and still i never doubted you

 

and i  remember you still with regrets

 

for  things never done

plans unfulfilled

memories never had that could have been

should have been.

 

i should have let my father read my heart’s cries

or sang him the rhythm of my furies,

my worries, my loves and passions

but i  know that he knows

and in the end it’s never too late

and i’ll never stop loving him

 

Daddy,

you, with your blue eyes

reflected in the mirror before me.

 

========== RedWillow ==========

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